Husband to be compensated when wife is raped: Coming to terms with a side to Bhutan I don’t like

“If found guilty, the offence would be graded a fourth degree felony, and the men will also be liable to pay compensation to the husband.”

I cannot believe I just read this line in Kuensel. This was stated by the newspaper’s sources (the police) and I cross-checked the Penal Code to ensure that this was true. The men are to be charged with, “Rape of a married woman”.

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You are what you eat…from your TV platter

It annoys me that young Bhutanese kids watch a lot of cartoons dubbed in Hindi or in Hindi. I get annoyed not because I believe that the ideal situation is where Bhutanese kids only watch cartoons in Dzongkha, I get annoyed because they do not have a choice.

Or so it seems. Continue reading You are what you eat…from your TV platter

Sherubtse’s filmmakers

The “Sherubtse film industry” has produced about 14 films, so far. This is a group that is constantly changing. Constantly growing. Members have no real experience in filmmaking and no professional equipment. They have, in fact, been sharing/passing down a Nikon and Canon camera (over the years).

Members of the Sherubtse Film Committee
Members of the Sherubtse Film Committee

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Bhutan’s Youth-Friendliness

Are there enough youth-friendly spaces in Bhutan? A straightforward question which, unfortunately, did not elicit a straightforward response from me.  Instead, the question turned into my shadow and finally into this: Continue reading Bhutan’s Youth-Friendliness

Finding Me

Finding Me

 

In the woods

sky above and ground below

feet on a dying tree.

 

Thirsty leaves drenched

in the wetness of the sky’s love.

 

Fingers trace a throbbing vein,

brown, green, and the space in between

filled with lines and letters

words and pictures-

characters of a film.

 

Breaths of time

Sighs of decay

in the moment

trapped…

between here and there.

Stillness between heartbeats

punctuating fleeting permanence.

 

Have I found the face of Life

Or the soul of Death?

 

 

 

 

Karma is Ema Datshi: a film review

*After my last experience with some people of the Bhutanese film fraternity, I thought it would be some time before I would be inspired to write about any other Bhutanese film. I was wrong. So, here is a REVIEW.*

Karma, the film, is a journey, both within and without. Karma is also the name of the protagonist, and by the end of the film, even a pun on the Buddhist notion of Karma itself.

Karma
Karma

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Why this Losar, I am grateful to be a Bhutanese!

This morning I woke up thinking about the kind of Losar message I would I like to share on my Facebook page at the start of the new Lunar year: what am I thankful for? What am I looking forward to?

My mind has been fully occupied for the last twelve hours in a monologue as a result of those questions. Feeling a little like Calvino’s, ‘Mr.Palomar’, I have been pondering the meaning of being a Bhutanese: it is only natural that I do so because when I give thanks for the year gone by, the first thing I am grateful for is being Bhutanese. But why am I grateful for being a Bhutanese? Continue reading Why this Losar, I am grateful to be a Bhutanese!

Bhutanese Films: Interrupted

“Gyalsey- The legacy of a Prince”,  is in a league of its own.  The film is quietly brilliant. My husband summed it up pretty well: Jamyang (actor/director) understands, and has successfully shown us that less is more.  No annoying songs that just explode onto the screen, no slapstick jokes, no dramatised deaths, in short, all farcical elements that are usually common to mainstream Bhutanese films are absent. Gratitude was what I felt towards this very intelligent young actor/director from the beginning to the end of the film. Not even once does the script slip; the flow of the frames was as natural as the sequence of the sun rising and setting.  Subtle acting by the male and female leads was a huge plus, actually, the entire cast did a fine job. But I was so angry by the end of the film. Continue reading Bhutanese Films: Interrupted